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There Must Be A Way: A Life Of Distraction

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There Must Be A Way: A Life Of DistractionThere Must Be a Way: A Life of Distraction There Must Be a Way is Murphy van Benschotens story of living with undiagnosed ADHD. Being constantly labeled negatively, van Benschoten shines a light onto a life with ADHD and how you can still strive to succeed in all you set out to do. Throughout her life, van Benschoten struggled with concentrating, in school, at work, and as an adult performing routine errands like hosting a family dinner and going to

There Must Be a Way: A Life of Distraction

There Must Be a Way is Murphy van Benschoten’s story of living with undiagnosed ADHD. Being constantly labeled negatively, van Benschoten shines a light onto a life with ADHD and how you can still strive to succeed in all you set out to do. 

Throughout her life, van Benschoten struggled with concentrating, in school, at work, and as an adult performing routine errands like hosting a family dinner and going to the grocery store. Using humor and raw emotion, she places on the page the everyday life of a person with ADHD, and her journey to diagnosis and management. Through her engaging story, anyone with ADHD or without will find great value in her journey and become more aware of the struggles and triumphs those with ADHD face every day.

About the Author

Murphy van Benschoten was born in Akron, Ohio, and has lived in New Haven, Connecticut; Adelphi, Maryland; Saginaw, Michigan; Madison, Wisconsin; and now northern Wisconsin. She attended Michigan State University and graduated with a degree in graphic design with a minor in psychology. She was married for forty-nine years and raised two children and now is grandmother to two granddaughters. In her spare time, she enjoys writing short stories and poetry, playing golf and pickleball, and gardening.

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KL
Massapequa, US
★★★★★ 5
Have bought a few of these over the last handful of years
Color: Red
Best toy outside of Ghonuts for heavy chewers. Even outlasts the most durable Kongs. I'd say we get about four months before our dog starts really making a dent in it and the size of the pieces he pulls off start to become larger and I should probably replace it after about six months. It's cheap enough that replacing it that often is fine. *Important note* using squishy toys for heavy chewers is really important. They can break their teeth on hard toys like Nyla bones and things like antlers can break and cut them and damage their digestive system if they swallow the shards. It sucks because my dog loved Nyla bones and would chew off an inch a day, but I couldn't risk his teeth like that.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 5, 2026
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Jenah Labuski
Massapequa, US
★★★★★ 5
Finally - a tug toy my dog hasn’t destroyed!
Color: Red
This completely exceeded my expectations! My dog is roughly a year old, about 110-115lbs and a TOUGH chewer. He loved tugs toys but none of them last more than 10 minutes with him. I decided to try this because of the other reviews and price but wasn’t expecting it to last long. He’s had it almost a week and it’s still completely intact. It’s definitely heavy so it might not be best for smaller dogs but if you have a big dog/heavy chewer definitely give this a shot!
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Reviewed in the United States on May 16, 2026
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Lisa A
Whiting, US
★★★★★ 5
Indestructible so far
Color: Red, Color: Red
My toy destroyer has had this for almost two months now and it hasn’t taken any damage. It is big and heavy and solid. It became one of his favorites immediately and goes in and out of the house and even to bed with him. Now if only we could find a stuffy that he can’t destroy.
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Reviewed in the United States on May 23, 2026
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Linda H.
Los Angeles, US
★★★★★ 3
MY DOG'S AREN'T INTERESTED ...
Color: Red
This is a large, heavy, hard rubber toy, so is of high quality. However, it is SO heavy that neither my 60-lb. female Boxer nor my 80-lb. male Bully will 'play' with it at all. They don't even chew on it. So, although it would probably be pretty indestructible, I have no way to verify that, since neither of my dogs show any interest at all. I've tried encouraging them, by holding on one end of it and encouraging them to grab the other end, but even that didn't work. Perhaps a much larger 'giant' breed dog would enjoy it.
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Reviewed in the United States on February 7, 2026
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Marcus Schilreff
Charlottesville, US
★★★★★ 5
Tough chewer for sure
My dog destroys toys. These are amazing, she chewys on them tell she's a slobbery mess. And they are holding strong. Glad a found these!
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Reviewed in the United States on February 10, 2026

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